I am always stunned at how WAWs can shed their obligations like a snake shedding their skin. I sometimes wonder if you could travel back in time and show the WAS what kind of person they become if they would be horrified? The sad fact is they usually realize what they have done when it's way too late to make repairs. Part of me wonders if this is a symptom of first world selfishness? I rarely read about this behavior in countries where people have to scrape just to eat.
Honestly I hate OW for you. I have to ask myself what kind of low life dates a person who neglects their loved ones? It's a matter of time before OW loses her novelty and starts expecting the same level of maintenance and care, then he'll shed her as well.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3