Long time I did not write anything. Lot has happened, and yet, things are the same.
She has moved back to bedroom in a moment that looked promising. There were up's and downs in the meantime, but she stayed. Looks like she has given up on OM.
Still, she has not found job, yet rejected 2 jobs because although they offered almost everything she wanted job was not paid enough (to her standards). Interesting enough that she never worked a real job and she knows what she is worth on the market. Not to say that 80% of her market/knowledge will be swept away by computers in next 10 years. Yes, she is overvaluing herself.
Good event that triggered me to write here again: she finally agreed to consultation, so I found excellent person and we are waiting on our first consultation.
I am a different person today - I don't know if I want to live my life with this person she has become... she is still highly manipulative, obsessed with the way she looks compared to fitness guru's on Instagram, spends about 5 hours daily on her mobile (mostly Facebook, Instagram and games). Yet she accuses me of hiding money from her, and accuses me of cheating, based on nothing than her 'hunch'. Of course, this hunches come from various FB articles '10 ways to know if he is cheating' and her own not-fulfilled infidelity.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room