Having a dilemma when it comes to 180s and pursuing. A 180 for me in my MR would actually be me giving my W more attention and affection. And trying to be more intimate. But in the thread in regards to pursuit. I'm supposed to not really give my W any attention. But to my W this would come off like business as usual. So action would someone in my sitch take? I want to get to the point where I can at least try to hold my W hand. But I don't want to push the issue. But were going on 6 months of no intimacy other than sex. And even that's starting to not be so frequent. Her issue in the MR was me not asking for sex more. But me asking for it more falls under pursuing.
