Your W clearly has not sure what she really wants from the sound of things. Which in my opinion works in your favour. If she claims to want to leave the MR to be on her own. Don't throw it in her face. But simply mention that you left with the intent on giving her time alone at home. And that your just giving her what she asked for. I've dealing with something in my sitch with my own W. She went from not wanting me in the same room to joining me where I'm located when I've been out of sight for too long. She'll now send me invites to places, text and emails. I can tell she wants to be in the MR by her actions, but stubbornness seems to block all that. And I have the feeling your W will likely be the same way. She'll fight you and try to prove your changes aren't authentic. But its going to take time and patience. So just hang in there and allow the changes to happen naturally. Don't expect to be this much better person in a day or a week.
