The hardest part is putting the decisions in somebody else's hands. Especially when that person doesn't seem to be in the right state of mind. And friends giving their advice always makes you seem foolish. Which is why I have stopped telling friends and family things. But that's all we can do. GAL in many cases never seems to go the way we hope they do entirely. That's why its good to always have a back up plan just in case. When plans fall through my mind always goes back to my sitch. So I've learned to always be prepared to do something else.
Don't show up for a face to face, unless you plan on fighting for the MR. And since you say that would be your 180, it might might something to him. Anything else is just going to make you look crazy and cause him to run even farther.
