Thanks guys - I reached out to a couple of friends and my boss has come back to me too. I feel a lot calmer now! My boss was very kind - said he would be devastated to lose me and I did a fantastic job for them - says we can agree whatever pattern & role works for me within reason....he wants to call later, so hopefully we'll agree a plan before I resume work on Tuesday...

Yes, as for dancing guy - you know, I kind of ignored him too! Because I like him and he was in a little group and I felt a bit shy to approach him. Plus another guy who was married (and friendly/pleasant - not flirtatious at all) came and sat by me, within our group for the evening - and a couple of people thought he was my partner. So, I can see maybe dancing guy didn't feel that comfortable coming over either - even if he was interested, which he may not be!! I started the evening with two left feet, but then did have a couple of fantastic dances with guys from my class - so that was nice too...

Just an over-sensitive weekend I guess. Anyway - hopefully crisis over and next week will be a better one with no tears. Generally I'm good and I'm grateful for your kind words.

Sotto xxx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus