A colleague of mine (and mutual friend of W and me) mentioned going to an event. I had mentioned it to my W on Friday and she told another colleague to go as well. That is when I was called fake when I said I don't have many more details. (and later that night she came to my room in tears). So yesterday I hadn't decided if I was going to go but when W was napping that colleague asked again. I tried to wake her but couldn't. So I left a text saying I was going to meet him. She first said to have fun and later seemed upset no one invited her. I said well he told me so it goes without saying you are invited as well.
This is one of many moments where I am mostly confused. She says she wants out but is then not happy when she is not involved in plans. I didn't want to say...besides you wanted out as it would start a fight.
