Hey Sotto! I'm in agreement with Bttrfly and RD; talking to your boss will be the way to go. He sees you as someone to depend on, so of course he's going to keep piling it on until you say "whoa!". Challenging yourself or taking on challenges is great for personal growth and self confidence, but you know when something is too much and not for you when you feel more uncomfortable as time passes, instead of just feeling stronger. That's ok! Your sleep and well-being are paramount.

On the other front; dancing guy will do what dancing guy will do. If you decide to throw caution to the wind and mention at some point that you were hoping he'd have asked you to dance, it would be interesting to see his reaction. You never know what's going on in people's heads...sometime's we just need to mix it up a bit. Glad you had a good time, though!


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.