One thing I also no about my STBXW is that she needs constant validation and attention kinda like a middle child syndrome which she is... I've always known this but it is exhausting to live with, the issue I have now it seems is that just like a child if she isn't getting the attention from me she looks for negative attention by doing something to get reactions from me. The lastest being that she has apparently closed a joint account where we used to live. The problem I have is I didn't think we still had a joint account there and have no trace of what was in it or anything... She has said I will receive half the amount in the next 2 weeks but as usual when I asked which account this was she disappears, just like everything real when I request it....
Anyways, off to the swimming pool with my 2 real kids and leave the 3rd one alone again....
