there's no divorce agreement and so that's just not applicable. In CA, I've been told one thing (that it's a parental obligation and thus, not related to spousal support )
and I have read case law that says it depends on what the reasonable expectation of the child is and the income of the paying parent (or expected paying parent).
H is putting all his chips on the "Oh, I retired!" board.
Honestly, despite all the crap he has pulled, and the things he has said and FB posts about how HAPPY he is now and blah blah blah, so that I try to treat him as dead to me,
I actually did not see this coming. I thought he'd feel heroic about paying...boy was I wrong. I keep underestimating hs ability to see himself as a victim. And I admit I hate the OW now.
I mean, she wasn't really of significance to me before, but now I'm irked like he11. I swear to God if I were dating someone and they told me they could "no longer afford" to pay for their own kid's college, I'd be shocked. NOT okay with it and would probably stop seeing them. Period.
(Of course, maybe he'll pay for HER kids...??? I don't even know anymore...)
And mind you, this is the gay d19 who was assaulted and arrested 2 weeks ago.
Okay...I don't want to spin. It's getting really late.
Thanks guys.
Truly
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
