Realistically speaking, (as in, "healthily"), that^^^ is the best possible outcome for a chance at a better & lasting marriage.
Keep at it. It will always require attention, like any garden. Keep weeding,
and be sure to Enjoy the bountiful harvest.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016