I'm sorry to hear your H decided not to fund the tuition. I suspect contacting him to try and resolve it wouldn't be productive. However, securing it in the divorce settlement may be an option perhaps?

From all that you've posted, he seems to have the mindset of - I've been supporting others financially for years and now I'm going to have some 'me' time and avoid paying any more than I absolutely have to. I suspect once your settlement is agreed, he may begin working again...

I'm not familiar with the law over there, but I would certainly run it by your L for an opinion? Hope you have a nice weekend. Xx smile


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