Do I "do" anything about h cutting our d19 off from college tuition?
I cannot pay for it. If I prevail in court in late July, and or get a well paying job, I'd be able to help. And I would.
But H turned down a well paying MD job to "retire" after the court ordered him to pay me spousal support.
H took out a school loan for our son while H did a fellowship (which did not pay much). Otherwise H earned high 6 figures...
Yet he won't do the same for d19. SIGH...I have to stop putting a rational spin (me trying to understand) on irrational behavior.
OR maybe I have to stop trying to frame this as a misguided but loving decision, when it may be simply selfish and greedy and unloving.
Ouch.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
