Please stick to one thread until you've reached 100 postings. I merged your two threads together. If the moderators allow one person to have more than one thread at a time, then others will come to expect the same when their topics vary. I make every effort to treat all the posters the same because I do not want anyone to feel slighted in any way.
Last edited by job; 05/26/1711:34 AM. Reason: Merged threads
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.