Thornton,
So sorry to hear about the move out. My W left while I was at work unexpectedly. Honestly, for me it would have been brutal to watch her move out and leave. I'm glad I didn't learn of her plans and have to suffer through the process of her leaving. The pain does hurt though. Yes the house looks different and I see a lot of memories in my home of us. But I can tell you that it will get better. I rearranged things and as I was able to adapt to new routines and the house doesn't seem as empty.

The initial shock does sting and I'm sorry you are having to go through this. I feel horrible for all of us on the forum dealing with the choices of another person. I don't think I have the words to help as I struggle to even find the correct words for myself.

I can say this.... Things do get easier and they do get better.... and then you might cycle back as you grieve the loss. I've had a lot of good days recently and then a few bad ones but I know I'm making progress.

I can see the progress you have made through your posts. You can do this and you are strong enough to endure.
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Me 38, Her 40
T-14, M-13, No kids
BD-1 4/14- EA/PA
BD-2 10/14- EA
BD-3 2/17- EA/PA
W Moves out 2.10.17 in with AP
W Served D papers 3.6.17
Divorce Final- 5.23.17