I read this earlier today, and Ive been thinking on it for some time to try to get my thoughts a little bit straighter before responding. Im not sure Im there yet, but I will say that Im trying to imagine love as a fleeting emotion, as something that we, as humans, have no control over, and Ive come to the conclusion that I reject that concept.
Thank you for the input guys and girls. @Kaizen, I have come to learn that there is no such thing as coincidence in life. Everything is in its right place at the right time. The good and the so-called bad.
I'm sitting in my bed, on my laptop, divorced. Now, i could not be anywhere else but here, in this moment. So love, the love that my XWW had for me, was always going to end. I was always going to be single (now). To think that we have control over anything is the greatest fallacy that human beings can ever believe.
As for making a choice to love, if it's not self-sustaining, then it is an emotion. One can choose to be angry at a family member for decades, the same as one can choose to love someone who is no good for you. That's why we must love in the moment, love does not have to be nurtured, it must just be. And when it's gone, we must let it go...
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
