WW won't separate

[Natus]

You are probably right in that she is miles and miles away from the MR.

Pity you had to blow up but sometimes it is what it is. Shes eating the cake and taking your share then expects you to go out and buy more. Who would not get fed up with that.

You have stated your boundary (well at least 1 or 2 so far). My x and i both made our own money so i cant really speak to what else you can do for boundaries and limit cake eating, maybe the others can chime in.