She seems to be looking for something that she feels is missing in her life. She might not even know what it is. Has she ever expressed to you the desire to have a child?
We had planned on having kids at 27 in our grand plan. When it was brought up, she said she was busy with work and I still had school. I had asked her to see a doctor to make sure everything was ok for kids as she hadn't been in a while and honestly was living an unhealthy lifestyle. As far as I know there was a small chance she couldn't have kids but I told her we'd figure something else out if that was the case. This was all talked about before marriage.
The thing I know is messing with her is "losing" science as a career. Everyone around her knows she spent her whole life working towards it and with a few bad experiences she seems ready to leave it behind. From what I know of her, her current job isn't going to be fulfilling enough eventually, she really isn't making any difference in the world she's peddling dog food to rich people. Things weren't perfect before she switched to the science job and then quit, but after quitting she changed her priorities completely. Family and certain friends are just ignored by her unless she wants something. All she does is work at her job where there isn't room for any more advancement and eat dinner at her table alone on her new schedule.
Together 7 years Married 3 Said she was taking long way home late January Left to get some space 2/19/17 BD 3/1/17 ILYB
