Sorry about that Cadet, I never fully talked about this since she left in October. So many questions and it feels good to hear other people speak about it. I'm getting ahead of myself.

Most people I told said divorce her butt so its hard talking to outside people with no experience in this.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old