I like your argument Vapo. I'm actually saying, that hate and love are the same thing. Both are emotions. That thin line between the two does not really exist.
This is how a relationship can flip in one moment. And agreed, someone else triggers the love emotion, which is why we're all on this forum. This love emotion is irrational and that's why it's called a bomb-drop. This love emotion is stronger than any bond, 10, 15 or 20 years of M can build.
The grass is always greener on the other side, not cos of bullshit, cos it's what the heart wants. LBSs think it's greener where it was, which is why we hold on.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.