If they really revert back to a teen age state, it makes sense that living in a crappy basement with OM seems exciting no responsibility just - fun drugs and rocks and roll
It always astounded me how my XH gave up everything a business, a house , 2 kids and family, gifs sobriety and recovery- to move to midwest with 14 years younger OW now wife He is now the step father of OW only daughter. from the pictures I saw of this 20 year old -she looks a mess and tattoos and smoking...leaving behind his only daughter who is an honors student at the university-
we know for sure they never really find it, fun peace success or freedom they are and will always be trapped inside themselves freedom can't be attained from no responsibility or from mood altering substances and OP and replay perhaps we are the lucky ones and maybe we find the peace/freedom by facing our lives and in the end if they can't turn it around they are left with nothing inside or out-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
