We did get some kind of vague letter in the mail. It did not say it was getting canceled, but I found it WAS canceled the day of my first therapy appointment. Me and my husbands insurance is separate from our children's as we changed policies (same company though) earlier this year. I was nervous about doing it because we had the same one before for three years, but the costs kept going up, so we took the jump and three months later it was canceled. I'm still waiting a call back to find out exactly what is going on.
He did feel it was important, but he goes to this doctor every month and he has rescheduled once at least, if not twice, before for a month later and was fine. So in this situation, that made the most sense to me (wait to be covered again).
I think you may be right though, he may not have wanted to admit he changed his mind based on what I said. I didn't think of that.
As far as something drastic, he has done such crazy things in the past when he goes through similar times like he is now, I do not put anything past him. He has gotten fired, he has blown budgeted bill money, he's went to jail, he's left and slept in his car for weeks, he's driven drunk and shot out the window in his car, he's shown up at our doorstep drunk when we separate with a gun (later said it was a BB gun) and asked to crash at our place, he has even told me to my face that "I had a gun, I'd shoot you in the face right now." I don't put anything past him!
I guess I threw in the tidbit of him saying he said he was going to get me an SUV and "he meant that," as a moment he was being nice. That doesn't happen very often. Getting a new vehicle has been a big issue in our marriage as I have been wanting to save and buy one outright and he just wants to get a vehicle ASAP. He says whether it's for me or him (he wants a sports car), he is obsessed with getting a new vehicle.