I went to counseling, she wants me to finish reading Boundaries in Marriage.
H told me he has a doctors appointment tomorrow, but our insurance, for some reason, canceled at the end of April (will be finding out more about this soon). most times they give you 30 days notice. Is it work related? I mean, how does one just have their health insurance with kids, canceled? I told him I think he should reschedule, and he did not want to at all. Because of the costs? If he insists on going, I'd assume he feels it is urgent. I would not stand in his way. What kind of appointment is it?
I told him the last time he went, including the insurance's contributions, his appointment was over $4,000. so the out of pocket was what?
He didn't care, but later in afternoon he said he changed his mind and he was not going. I asked him why he changed his mind and he became very angry, going on about why he didn't have to have a reason and why he didn't have to answer that.
well, maybe I'm missing something. Didn't you tell him Not to go b/c it costs too much? Maybe he didn't want to admit that is why he decided not to.
What other reason could there be, since he originally wanted to go, & you told him not to?
His immaturity is getting worse and I hope he doesn't do something drastic. like what? What type of thing would he do that is drastic?
He text me last night while working and said he meant what he said about getting me an SUV and paying for it. I drive an older car and during our entire marriage, we have not purchased a new vehicle. So we shall see if he does. Sometimes he does the things he says he will and sometimes he does not.
Whoah, I'm confused. So, you worry about him "doing something drastic" - which is a disturbing thing to read,
and you are glad (or sad?) that he is not going to see the doctor (though i'm not clear on what type of doctor appointment it is)
I assume you must be upset about not having health insurance... but then you switch topics to him getting you a new car.
What does all ^^^this mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
