I went to counseling, she wants me to finish reading Boundaries in Marriage.

H told me he has a doctors appointment tomorrow, but our insurance, for some reason, canceled at the end of April (will be finding out more about this soon). I told him I think he should reschedule, and he did not want to at all. I told him the last time he went, including the insurance's contributions, his appointment was over $4,000. He didn't care, but later in afternoon he said he changed his mind and he was not going. I asked him why he changed his mind and he became very angry, going on about why he didn't have to have a reason and why he didn't have to answer that.

His immaturity is getting worse and I hope he doesn't do something drastic.

He text me last night while working and said he meant what he said about getting me an SUV and paying for it. I drive an older car and during our entire marriage, we have not purchased a new vehicle. So we shall see if he does. Sometimes he does the things he says he will and sometimes he does not.


M: 30 H: 31
T: 15 M: 7
S: 12 D: 7 D: 5
H cheated off/on entire relationship
1st marital A/abandoned: 11/12
R: 2/13
Abandoned: 1/14
R: 3/14
A 2: 1/16
Ended/caught: 2/16
Now: cheating online