Hey Ginger, my XWW has now dumped OM3 after 7 months and is single again. I'm removed all boundaries and she has let herself back in my life.
She makes as though nothing has happened and wishes for her M again. That urge to have someone is not something that only we LBSs have. Co-dependency goes both ways, and we must be thankful that we have had an opportunity to remove it from our psyche now. My XWW will repeat this vicious cycle, perhaps till she dies.
I saw this movie and this one partner said to the other "I am toxic for you, as I love you less than what you love me". That's the key.
We all love on different levels - lust becomes love, love becomes in-love, in-love becomes love, love becomes hate. We all hope to stop somewhere in the middle. We have no control over the other person, this we all agree on. But if you can love with all of your heart, without restraint, without fear, then even if the other one walks away, you have lost nothing. You loved with all of you, and that's more than most people get to experience once in their life.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
