Hey there, sorry to hear that you're going through this. We've all been down a road, altho yours appears more sedated.
You need to get to the bottom of why she "still" wants a divorce. If you were an [censored], i can't see how thats any reason to want to leave a marriage with kids.
Some want-away-wives feel single again and are ready to mingle. You need to know what she's thinking, without getting into an argument.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
