Well one major problem is that I moved to her town so I'm in her familiar place. I have about 5 solid friends there and a few others I hang out with. So she left me in an unfamiliar place with two large dogs to take care of. I'm from a town about 45 minutes away and that's where my family and bulk of friends live. So moving will be a thought.
My plan is not very specific, but I have signed up for things I always wanted to do, back in gym, seeing my friends, etc. My wife was very controlling so that threw me out of loop with many friends. Another big problem is that I'm a CPA and she did this in early March, I'm still behind with some clients. So priorities will have to take a little precedence over GAL at the moment even though I am stepping out my comfort zone.
Got a call from a cruise line today asking for my wife. I logged in the website and sure enough they going on a 7 day cruise in a few months but she keeps complaining about money. She never asks me for anything though.
Thoughts on the following....Affair partner does videography and bartending. He does some video work for a local church. Is it out of line to email that church about it? Also, I think I know the answer, but is it out of line for logging into her cruise line account? I've rarely been the jealous type but I don't know the full story on a lot of things.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
