First time here, part 3

[leahsue]

So...... things are playing out pretty much as I expected. By last night, I had not heard from him since Saturday. That in and of itself I think is disrespectful- because on Saturday, I felt a postponement coming, and I said, please let me know because I don't want to be left at the last minute with no holiday plans if you back out. He said I will keep you posted. But he has not. So I texted him last night and said Are you still coming? He came back with all this junk about office architect plans they are waiting on for approval that he will have to be present to sign, and some other stuff. He ended the text by saying "so I don't know if it will be this week or next week when I come." ASSUMING that his time is more valuable than mine, I guess, since he didn't even say- will that work for you, etc.
After a bit, I texted back and said- very kindly- "look, I know you have obligations and I can tell you don't feel comfortable leaving work with things undone right now. Why don't we postpone this until maybe the middle of June? Maybe then we can decide if we even still want to see each other. That way you don't have to feel torn. I'm not being mean. I'm just trying to take any pressure off of you so you can do your work. Our relationship can wait. I'm fine either way."
As usual, no response, but no surprise there. So as of right now, he is still scheduled to fly here tomorrow, and I guess he'll let me know something by tonight. I just think that's rude and disrespectful of my time. I'm doing nothing to prepare for his visit, because I don't think it will happen right now. And honestly, I am fine with that. I'm not sure I want to see him at this point, anyway.
I know one thing. If he does back out, I'll be having the GAL holiday weekend like a boss. That kind of sounds like more fun to me anyway.
Updates as they come......