WW won't separate

[resolut]

Today was a tough day. We're having quite a few expenses lately. My wife is a SAHM, no job. I suggested that she start looking for a job to which she is agreeing. So far so good on this. But then she let on that if she were to get a job she would save that money to use post D. I really lost it from there. I informed her how disrespectful that was as Im the one currently providing. A marriage is a collaborative thing. So sickening for her to think she could just get a job and save up money. Why am I doing this? I'm venting. I went out and ran 3 miles after that conversation.

I did set a new boundary and she's getting her own cell phone plan, off of mine. She'll need a job to pay for that.

This was just one of those conversations that was ugly but I had to get the point across as to how disrespectful she is behaving to me and the M.