Round 2, Part 2 (Electric Boogaloo)

[Tryin2figuritout]

I never thought I'd be typing this as an update, but here I am. I've mentioned how my W has been really seeming to lose it (not temper, but just her marbles for lack of a better description) and she did today. I'm traveling for work and was coordinating with her about my S10's day tomorrow after school via text. She texts "It has been a terrible day".

I asked why and texts started flying about how she failed, how she walked, how she gave up, etc. Once settled in my hotel room, I called to hear her rambling frantically. She couldn't get any words out. She's had a PA with a co-worker as recent as last week and it started in February.

She's confused about how much she's messed up everything. It was getting real for her because we were going to see the attorney on Thursday. Her job has also become less stable and it does not help having a co-worker who she's done these horrible things (her words).

So now what? I've cancelled our appointment with the attorney on Thursday and will be calling our MC for an appointment. She's on the phone as we speak telling this co-worker its over and there will be NC. She thinks she will be fired or will quit and I'm ok with either. Bottom line is the OM has to stop or I'll be calling my attorney quickly. I've been suggesting to my W to go see an IC for months and I think she might now.

It's weird. I'm not devastated. I'm hurt, but I guess some part of me knew this could happen down deep. Like I said, I get a whiff of anything and my attorney will be called.

I guess I'll go back to the initial threads from Cadet to check out more information on dealing with a Wayward Wife. Good news is I know that quality information from Sandi will help.

Man am I glad I have an IC appointment on Friday.

All the best.