i truly do keep things about me and also embrace permanent change and constantly challenge myself to ensure they aren't short term changes. i use her criticisms more as a basis for initial opportunities for improvement. I should mention that I've purchased several online marriage saving programs as well, i know that her exit strategy and the wall wasn't built overnight (i realize that only now through research)

i know I'm missing new approaches and opportunities so by all means criticize me, i can take it lol

BD Oct 2016
Me 47, W 43
together 25 years
S 25, D 22