Hi G. Just my two cents...now I know I come from a place of knowing you personally and loving you. However..had he not done this before, I could maybe understand his feelings. But..he did. He was with someone with a kid who was older. And I am sorry, but, he needed to think it through before he got into that situation again. Especially knowing that how you feel about your daughter and bringing someone into her life.
And I dont care what everyone else does..it doesnt make it right..you do not break up with someone through text. You just dont. And to me, it is cowardly.
It doesnt make him a bad person. You wouldnt have been with someone who was.
If we dont have some expectations of how we should treat each other, than what's the point?
G, the only way to do this is through it. No short cuts, I'm afraid. And you will do it. In your wonderful G way.