I suggest you talk to a DB Coach. Be careful about no contact, if your wife commonly complained about not getting enough of your attention, or not feeling loved and appreciated. I don't remember whether she complained about that, but just throwing that out there. The most important thing is to do whatever seems to work with her, and avoid the things that seem to make things worse. Look for baby steps in the right direction. One small step leads to another, and another, typically. And remember that it's a marathon, rather than a sprint.
Hello giftd,
Big congratulations on your graduation! Good luck with interviewing. That is some serious GAL!
WshIKnw- Thanks for the vote of confidence regarding the DB telephone coaching.
I hope your friend is on the mend and has a speedy recovery. Super nice of you to help him.
It sounds like your changes have been noticed, just difficult to believe at this point. These changes need to be made for you. They need to be long lasting and sincere. Prove that to yourself and anyone else through your actions, not your words.
Cristy
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