Looks like you have had some good advice today Thornton. I do shake my head at the immaturity of someone who will dump you (for the third time) make plans to move to another state and then say - I need you to chase me...and believe that may happen??
It is worth exploring your tendency to idealise your R with your ex GF. It certainly doesn't sound like a terribly healthy one - being together 5 years, her ending the R 3 times. This time just before you were going to get engaged. Then asking you to chase her..
I know it isn't easy but for sure I would let her go, work through the heartache, work on you! Don't rush into a new R - explore the dynamics of your previous two relationships and work on the bits where your own approach contributed negatively to the dynamic.
Also, truly absorb this message - I truly deserve better than to be walking around on eggshells wondering when my partner is next going to flake out...
Good luck for the next few days - and if in doubt ask yourself - what would Clint do....would he chase??
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
