I know everyone says to make the focus about us and how we are going to move forward. And I get it totally. That where I need to be.
But I just want to understand so badly about spouses like ours, that are able to be so emotionally disconnected. I mean, we are talking about spouses that shared our lives with us, had children together, grew up together! I want to understand the psychology behind it. Was it something that I just missed while dating? The drugs?
Knowing is part of the puzzle for me. It teaches me what to avoid. Helps me understand what I truly need to address and what was manifested by my ex for whatever his purposes were.
