Originally Posted By: EastTN
Dating... wow. the date I went on was the best one I'd been on in my entire life. Chemistry. The kind of thing that only happens in movies. We practically kissed at dinner. We DID miss the entire movie because we were busy kissing. Four dates in two weeks. Each one better than the last. Incredible!

Im glad you had a good time. I just want to warn you to approach these kinds of relationships carefully. How would ou say this relationship is different from any of the affairs you read about on here? Hot and heavy at first because its something new and different. Makes you want to ignore warning signs and move forward at light speed. Im not saying that its BAD, just that you need to kind of keep some perspective. You know this girl for two weeks and youre already picturing a great life together; youre already ready to settle down with this girl and youve only spent what, like 20 hours together?

Originally Posted By: EastTN
Talked to W last night. I made her promise to get help. We'll see what happens. I still don't want her. If I went back, it would be to make HER happy and not ME happy. Maybe someday. I don't know.

You talk about W spewing and you spewing and now youre talking again about her getting therapy and so on. Honestly, this sounds like a ton of communication for someone thats 'moved on'. I imagine that GF could sense your remaining attachment to W. Just my 2 cents.