Thanks for the help. I've brought up the "being fired" or I think I phrased it as "you don't want me to be that guy anymore". I think she said something like that's unfair and I was like what else do you want me to call it.
For listening, it's harder these days because we're separated physically. Conversations are mostly through text and about kids stuff only. I've been validating but I guess the opportunities are so few and far between I feel like I'm not getting enough at bats. (Put me in coach, I'm ready to play)
Best luck to y'all too.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17