Ginger I think your ability to sit with your EX and OW is quite amazing. I know I won't be that guy. Yes it still stings. (I'm a rarity. No one should eve
The observation is just how easy and comfortable it was. All the anger and hurt and legalities are done. There isn't anything to fight about anymore. Nobody is interested in reconciliation. It just makes me wonder why. That's all. I could analyse it to death and I'll never find an answer. My ExW and I were a great couple and she knows it. But she chose another path.
Peace
You answered your own question as to why it is so easy and comfortable. That's what I was trying to say:)
I highlighted why up there. It is normal for the convo to be natural and easy. Nothing out of the ordinary.