So here's the thing....

[NDY]

Hi everyone. Thanks for stopping in. And I appreciate the comments.

25, not in a relationship at the moment. Just left one. It wasn't working out and I felt like I was suffocating but I won't get into that here. This isn't the place but yes I've been out with women and yes it's been nice but just not 'clicking'. That may be me or that may be just the way it is and I've not met the right woman yet. Who knows.

Anyway, my reason for this thread was more of an observation. The last few years were hell and let me everyone on here you can't quite believe it's happened to you. But you do the work and you pick yourself up and move forward. I honestly would have been ok with spending the rest of my life having no communication with her other than practical matters involving S11. I kid you not. That's how hard getting over her was.

Ginger I think your ability to sit with your EX and OW is quite amazing. I know I won't be that guy. Yes it still stings.

The observation is just how easy and comfortable it was. All the anger and hurt and legalities are done. There isn't anything to fight about anymore. Nobody is interested in reconciliation. It just makes me wonder why. That's all. I could analyse it to death and I'll never find an answer. My ExW and I were a great couple and she knows it. But she chose another path.

Peace