Looking for advice. Do I just let my W swim in this mess she's making? Deal with her issues on her own with no support from me or use as an opportunity?

One of the biggest things I'm working on is being a better listener. I've been terrible at that. In one sense, I think she just needs to figure this out on her own and in another I see an opportunity to show her changes in myself.

Thoughts?


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17