Well my W ended up not going to IC due to some sort of scheduling issue. I'm concerned now that she won't reschedule. Its a lesson to me to be guarded against any forms of hope.

W had to come back to the MBR as now kids are home from college. What a strange feeling to have her come back when I know she doesn't want to be in there. Trying to persuade her it will be better for her to go sleep at a friends.

Otherwise, I'm still running 6 days a week and journaling. Need to keep looking for more ways to change things that aren't working.


Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs
4 children
ILYBNILWY 1/30/17
PA confronted 3/6/17
Separated same house