She supposedly sent the original NC text to him without me requesting. The email to him was my request though. Since sending she has been down in the dumps and been more short tempered with me. Withdrawals, I'm not so sure though, maybe just irritated that I asked for NC letter.
I honestly want her out of the house at this point, but legally I can't force this. So still in limbo.
If you want her out of the house, why did you request she email a NC letter? Did she agree to transparency?
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