NDY,

Wow, you've been through a lot. Sounds like you are doing great. I'm relatively new to this scene (9 months) so don't have much advice to share but just wanted to thank you for sharing some perspective on what life looks like on the other side. And my two cents on the latest interaction with your XW is that you opened the door a little when you told her about your brother and she responded to that positively.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving