Two months have just passed, thank God for his grace, things are going smoothly...
Almost every weekend of last two months, husband would come home and spent the weekend with me, I can tell from his action that OW is no longer there. I can feel that he is still changing but toward the right direction. He would smile at me sometimes joking around. I respect him if he wants to be alone by Saturday, we will just have lunch on Sunday. It is amazing that he is trying to 'pick up' the piece of our old life one at the time.
He started to remember the things we had together, those old memories and the places we've been to, the movie/restaurant we loved ...
I kept my mouth shut, never ask what happened last two or three years. He DID NOT apologize or say sorry but he is showing me more and more his feelings and emotions to my family and my friends. He let me hold his hand and hug him (he was cold and would reject if I got closer).
I did ask him if he wants to stay with me during weekdays, he refused and I will not force him, will let him do just what he wants to. I want him to feel safe and receive the warmth from our home.
Anything I should be awarded of or be doing ? I welcome him home no matter he 'apologized' to me or not, I hope he become a happy and mature man.
Now I'm at level three of my French lessons
Me - 43 H - 41 BD - Sep. 2014 H moved out - May 2015 Threatening divorce, no action for 14 months since Dec. 2014 to Jan.2016. His older bother was the golden child of the family, my mother in low is handicapped and had emotional and marital issue. Husband told me he felt 'nothing was alright' ever since my granny passed away five years ago.
