Time for another blast off on here than losing my head with my W.

Firstly, moved in to my new flat this week. My SD came to help, but she's not strong, so I mostly did all the moving on my own. We had a pizza from Dominos to celebrate.

W brought over the kids on Friday, as normal. She told me the Doctor had told her to take S off his medication, as he had been attacking some of his teachers at school. He was in a foul mood, but I soon worked out that he had a sore throat. I gave him some medication and he calmed down. I followed her advice and didn't given his normal 'behavioural' medication on Saturday, but after three hours of crying, screaming etc. I gave it to him and he soon calmed down.

Today, I gave him his medicine from the get go, and he has been calmer, until W arrived. I have worked out, that when W arrives to take him away, he kicks off. It's S's birthday on Tuesday, so I bought him a new laptop, as he can use this to develop his co-ordination skills. W, of course, then claimed she was going to buy him one, and then told me she wouldn't be bringing the kids on a Tuesday anymore as 'they are disturbed'.

I got very annoyed at this, told her that I would have to resort to court action and then told her to get out of the flat. OK, she's pushed my buttons and I have reacted, but I'm losing the will here to be 'nice' anymore.

I just can't see any end to this. There is no signs of anything from her at all, and I think I might just give the whole thing up. What's the point. One thing for sure, there is no way I am taking her to her next appointment for her surgery in June - no way. The selfishness is unreal and she looks and acts like a complete stranger. However, she reacts badly if I look happy or go for drinks with a friend, or have quality time with the kids, and she hates the fact that when the kids are with me, they have so much fun, and miss me.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015