i realize i may have misspoke. I suppose what I was trying to say was; she leaves for weekends, yet stays home during the week, but very much on her own in the house. i feel distancing only exacerbates matters and while we have short respectful conversations i feel i should be doing something different, something new. I don't share my learnings or methods with her. it seems she may be more disconnected than i thought and she embraces her weekends. she does reach out Saturday afternoons and i keep responses short and polite, but not immediately responded too. this weekend she took an additional vacation day off to extend her weekend away. i sense she stays more for financial ease. i'm all but certain there is an OM, although i have not gone looking for proof.. she recently said she just didn't want to see me get together with so and so... as if she's pushing me to move on. i point to the book "Love Must be Tough" as a point of reference
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22
