Thanks 25. Not trying to be graphic but we never used those "bedroom items" so its like, what the hell is going on over there.

You are totally right, I am currently seeing my pastor and therapist. Also you are right in the sense that who knows what their relationship is like, especially since the newness is fading. At end of day, there is zero chance that I can tell them what to do. They will do whatever they want, regardless of my thoughts so I should just leave it be. Easier said than done but its the truth.

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M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old