Sorry to hear all that, but I'm hearing similar. It's all guilt transfer. It's all going to be about what you've done to cause this regardless of the truth.
My W keeps telling me and her family that I'm making her be the bad guy by wanting a D. I know we could get through this, but she's done and feels I'm forcing her hand.
Space may be good for y'all instead of sharing a place. She's obviously built up some "venom" over the years and needs to get rid of it. Space is easier for that.
Hope you have a great rest of the weekend.
All the best.
Tryin, yep, similar path to what I've tread over the past year. All you can do is keep a positive attitude and let the thing play out. Are you still in house with your W? If you are, I'm sorry bc that's tough. I imagine that once the space is there this thing is done. My W has an OM who was present at the start of this thing and I believe she's still talking to. With space comes open season on that thing for her and I'm probably not willing to be ok with that. So this split will probably be it for us.
So after that it comes down to communicating about D and that's it. I need to discuss with W how we handle our "family" vacation in July. Right now I'm thinking that I do half the week and w does the other half. Too hardcore? Thanks all!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
