Originally Posted By: lt0402
[quote=mvgfwd2]Is it bad that I don't want to live in the same apartment complex as my W? I really don't want to see her daily or be under any of her "control" anymore if we are S. I feel like living that close does that.

Not bad at all. In fact, it's probably healthy to be apart. My W and I are currently sharing an apartment that we stay at while our kids remain home. Space gives some clarity and you get to own every day for yourself.

My W has control issues and it's been very freeing to not be under it.


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17