[quote=mvgfwd2]Is it bad that I don't want to live in the same apartment complex as my W? I really don't want to see her daily or be under any of her "control" anymore if we are S. I feel like living that close does that.
Not bad at all. In fact, it's probably healthy to be apart. My W and I are currently sharing an apartment that we stay at while our kids remain home. Space gives some clarity and you get to own every day for yourself.
My W has control issues and it's been very freeing to not be under it.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17