Not surprised here. Maybe get a duplex to buy/rent or convert a house to a duplex. May be less stress on D. Not a great idea but it's an idea if she is determined to S.
Thanks MV. Not fully a surprise here, just still kind of weighing on me now that we are at this point. Is it bad that I don't want to live in the same apartment complex as my W? I really don't want to see her daily or be under any of her "control" anymore if we are S. I feel like living that close does that.
I guess I could do it for 3-6 months to allow D to transition. But even then I'd just like a clean. Real and not one of these gray area type splits. Thanks brother.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18